The Girls of Budapest

Those times are long gone when Budapest and the girls who live here were known for their openness and easy going nature. Or it's better to put it like this: the girls of Budapest are still open and easy going as long as you have enough money.

Yes, those were the olden days when having barely heard two sentences in Italian or in anything that sounded like it, Hungarian girls immediately felt like they were sitting on the passenger seat of an Alfa Romeo, from where it didn't take much to have them not actually sitting in half an hour, but lying on their backs. Back then it was enough to whisper a jaunty lie or two into their ears while slow dancing and after a vodka-orange bought with cheap forints you were halfway there...not bad. But what is it like today?

If you're not sure how much your car would cost on the market right now, all you have to do is ask a 20 year old chick at Bed Beach. You don't have to pore over catalogues to know what your watch is worth, show it to her and she'll know the year of production and the price in Euros and forints. Their minds are like computers. Logic and numbers are a weapon they'll use only against you.

Man from abroad=Sap. Or in other words a loser who must be ripped off. Today's girls will not even bat an eyelash if all you have are beautiful words, promises or a beautiful car, they want more.

Are you surprised asking why it is like this?

Most beautiful girls socialised, grew up or got sophisticated in Western Europe. Because Hungary and its economy were in the state they were in, many people tried their luck abroad and since the German, Italian, Swiss, English and Austrian markets offer many possibilities for the self-appointed entrepreneurs of the sex industry, they could easily find work. They stayed there for a couple of years and when they got too old and returned home, a new generation went there to replace them and this is still going on today. In the end it became quite natural that if there was a good looking girl she inevitably became a dancer abroad, irrespective, for example, of her education.

The real trouble wasn't this, however. But the fact that these girls, all of them, returned and keep returning home morally dead and they are not anymore able to be positive and non judgemental to men. Why is this? Because abroad a woman like this is unattainable for an average man and this scares him. But in the meantime this also gets him completely obsessed, making him want her badly. What do assholes do in such a situation? Because they lack personality and style, they try to show off their power, attempting to solve everything with money. If I don't have enough charm, I'll get her another champagne in the club. If that still doesn't make me handsome enough, I'll buy her a luxury watch, then some jewellery, then a car. It's not difficult to spoil someone this way, especially if that someone is from a place of scarcity or at least modest possibilities. What's more, they are only 18-22 years old, undeveloped personalities, who maybe should still be with their families.

This process is a vicious circle. The girls will want to outdress each other with luxury clothing, they will always want good cars and they'll want to earn a lot of money without any actual work, but preferably very quickly. Whoever stays here at home won't want to lag behind and will try to copy the example of her girlfriends living abroad. Like this money becomes the only thing that matters, at any price. She will also fail to see value in anything or anyone but money. This of course requires sacrifices, ones that most of them make without a second thought. They'll go and work as dancers, prostitutes, porn actresses, whatever it takes to keep up.

That's where you come in, you, the unsuspecting, naive and honest tourist from abroad. You visit our little third world country and of course you expect everyone to worship you just because you're from the West. Normally that would actually be the case, but because of the reasons above it isn't. You're facing your own fucked up creature, the Hungarian woman.

That's why you can't have an honest conversation with any girl from Budapest without strings attached. That's why it's like a Pavlov's reflex that they will all want to rip you off. That's why you won't simply meet someone and have some friendly sex. The average foreign tourist is not anymore much of a deal for a girl from Budapest, so if you're from abroad, it's much harder to chat girls up than if you're Hungarian. That's simply because a tourist is here for a week at best but then goes back home to his family to slowly forget about his experiences in Budapest. So for girls who are out for the kill this can't be a goal, because feelings and sympathy are the least important things for her. All she needs is some sucker you can get money from on the long run. Not to mention that nowadays even among Hungarians there are many men who earn well above the Western average and so they have a lot more to offer to a woman like this than any rival from any other country. That's why if you come to Budapest to give it a shot and try your luck with girls you're bound to fail. Don't think you'll be successful with women because unfortunately you won't. And that's not because you might be inferior to Hungarians in any way, but merely because the mind of a woman from Budapest is a calculator which says a man from abroad is no good business. So it goes...

That's why night clubs and brothels are so popular and that's why the whole capital prostituted itself. This could only change if girls didn't have to leave the country to be able to hope for a better life and if half the country didn't have to hustle to make a living. Anyway, if things keep going on in this direction and there will be no turning back from this, soon we will turn into the Thailand of Europe, where you could only get sex, feelings or actual care for money.

Should you have a related story, please, tell us!

Write your story:

Name:
Comment:
Verification code:

Share this page!